Showing posts with label Sex. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Sex. Show all posts

Friday, November 30, 2007

No sex please



'No Sex Please, We're British' says the movie/play title. Apparently that's due for an update, with a re-edit to ' No Sex Please, We're Therapists'.

Of course, it's no joke. There are very strict ethical guidelines with regard to therapist-patient relationships. Yet according to psychiatrist Professor Carolyn Quadrio from the University of NSW, one in every ten male therapists will have sex or develop an intimate link with a female client. Between one and three percent of female therapists will do the same.

Maybe I'm naive but these figures really surprised me. Anyone have any thoughts on this?

I understand that in the therapeutic process, particularly in the setting of good rapport and the discussion of often very intimate subjects, the potential for a blurring of boundaries can be great. When the therapist is the one person who has listened, seemed to understand or appeared to care for the patient, patients can come form a close bond with their therapist. This is a situation that requires very careful management.

Professor Quadrio's research is important in that it gives some indicators of the therapists most likely to be at risk of letting things get out of hand - those who were dealing with their own depression or experiencing difficult times and thus vulnerable to the adoring client, bad eggs who "prey" on clients and "ego maniacs". Professor Quadrio explains that this last group are the hardest to identify because these individuals are often highly talented and admired by colleagues and patients alike.

Professor Carolyn Quadrio will present her findings today at the World Psychiatric Association conference in Melbourne. It looks like a very interesting conference with many interesting speakers, including a personal favourite of mine, Professor Paul Salkovskis, who has undertaken extensive work on hypochondriasis/health anxiety (an area of particular interest) and obsessive-compulsive disorder. You may have seen his recent series "The OCD House" on the ABC.

Ah, if only I was in Melbourne...

Monday, November 19, 2007

237 reasons



Browsing the research databases, this study certainly caught my eye. "Why humans have sex" is written by Cindy Meston and David Buss and published in the August edition of Archives of Sexual Behavior.

The study's importance lies in understanding the cognitions and emotions underlying the behaviour and it is an area that has received relatively little attention. Reasons for engaging in sexual behaviour had been thought to be relatively few, mainly related to the desire to reproduce, experience pleasure and relieve sexual tension. However, the 444 participants in this study managed to come up with a heady 237 reasons, including those anticipated but also reflecting a whole range of psychological motivations, including spiritual ("I wanted to feel closer to God", reason 7), vengeful ("I wanted to hurt/humiliate my partner", reason 78), a sense of obligation ("I felt like it was my duty", reason 48) and coercion ("The person demanded I have sex with him/her") among others.

Some of the more unusual reasons include "The person was a good dancer (Reason 201)" and "The person was famous and I wanted to be able to say I had sex with him/her (Reason 23)".

Good enough reason to stop Practical Man watching 'Dancing with the Stars' I'd say.

On a more serious note, the study revealed four major factors underlying a decision to have sex: physical reasons (stress reduction, pleasure, physical desirability and experience seeking; goal attainment (resources, social status, revenge, and utilitarian); emotional (love, commitment, expression); insecurity (self-esteem boost, duty/pressure, mate guarding).

When, in a further study, respondents were asked to rate the importance of each factor in respect of their own experiences, significant differences were found according to gender (which probably comes as no surprise to most of us) and personality type.

If you'd like to read more about this study or the 237 reasons, the link above provides full access to a text version of the journal or you can source it via the reference provided below. Meanwhile I'm off to conduct a counter study. "Reasons why humans don't have sex."

Reference

Meston, C. C., & Buss, D. M. (2007). Why humans have sex. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 36, 477-507.